Hover/highlight color in pivot 2 tables

When I select fields in a pivot 2 table for filtering, those fields will be highlighted. If I then hover over additional fields, they get highlighted in the same color, like this:

I would like to achieve 2 things in my pivot 2 tables:

1. set the hover color different from the color of the already selected (usually filtered) cell(s). i.e. FFH gets a different color, because that's where my mouse currently is located at.

2. color the whole row when selected, not just a cell, like this:

Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.